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Love in the Age of Terrorism: New York Psychologist Dr. Judy Kuriansky offers 10 tips and other advice to avoid “Couple Trouble” “Terror Sex” and Children’s Fears on 9/11 10^th Anniversary

Event at St. Luke’s Hospital on September 8^thconnects children of disaster in New York, Haiti and Japan for healing

New York, NY, August 22 - As the 10^th anniversary of 9/11 looms, noted New York clinical psychologist Dr. Judy Kuriansky is available to talk about the impact of this marker event on couples and children worldwide, and about an upcoming event connecting children in trauma zones. Dr. Judy, as she is fondly known from TV and radio, provided mental health support at Ground Zero and the Family Assistance Center after the World Trade Center attacks and was featured in a Red Cross PSA. In her Global Kids Connect Project, kids from trauma zones exchange dolls to show caring, e.g. kids in Japan made dolls brought to Haiti, and kids in Haiti made dolls brought to Japan. On September 8^th, kids in New York City will make dolls for kids in Haiti and Japan (see below). 

Dr. Judy can address the following points:

• What are “Anniversary Reactions?” Reactions around the date of a past traumatic event or emotionally charged episode when individuals re-experience strong symptoms.
• How have relationships changed because of 9/11?  In a survey, 2/3 of women and men want more connection with their partner, but others feel life is meaningless so they withdraw from love and sex and don’t want children. Dr. Judy says to expect opposite reactions: “Come closer” versus “Go away.”
• What are the dangers of the 10^th anniversary for couples? Dr. Judy says expect “Couple Trouble” from different coping styles:  “Avoiders” who want to escape being reminded about the event versus “Talkers” who want to review every detail and feeling.
• What are ways to make your relationship better on the 9/11 anniversary? Dr. Judy gives 10 tips, including:  accept differences; help each other feel safe; hug and hold.
• What is the danger for singles? Some singles may engage in “Terror Sex”- casual sex, since “There may not be a future, so why not have a great time now?”   
• What are the dangers for children? Exposed to intense media and public coverage, kids can have nightmares and stomach aches, and refuse to go to school.
• How will the 10^th anniversary impact people around the world? Helping after many disasters (Hurricane Katrina, the Asian tsunami, bombings in the Middle East, earthquakes in Haiti and China), Dr. Judy notes similar reactions.
• What is “guerrilla counseling” after 9/11?  People at the site asked Dr. Judy questions, e.g. a man wanted to calm his girlfriend’s fears, a teen needed help for her depressed buddy, a woman wanted to convince her husband they should have another baby.
• Can so much media attention about 9/11 be harmful to people? Yes, past traumatic memories and fears of all kinds can be triggered; if so, seek professional counsel.

Dr. Judy can also talk about:

• Her professional projects and personal experiences related to 9/11 and how helping changed her life. Dr. Judy was a first responder, providing mental health support, after 9/11 at Ground Zero and at the Family Assistance Center.  As a result of this experience, her career and life took a new perspective. Also, from being at Ground Zero, she has some lung problems and is part of The World Trade Center Medical Monitoring Program for first responders.
• Children are helped by knowing that other kids experiencing trauma care about them. In the Global Kids Connect Project that Dr. Judy founded, dolls are exchanged among children in Haiti, Japan and New York. A workshop will be given, open to press coverage:
  • WHAT:  The 4^th annual Child and Family Institute Back-to-School Event
  • WHEN:  September 8^th from 3-6 p.m.
  • WHERE:  St. Luke’s Hospital, Babcock Cafeteria, 419 West 114 Street, NYC.
• Music heals.  An anthem written after 9/11 by Dr. Judy and composer Russell Daisey, called “Towers of Light,” honors the heroes and offers hope and healing.  Named for the two beams that shine annually over Ground Zero where the Twin Towers fell, the song has been performed at the World Trade Center Responder Day, United Nations conferences and the Hiroshima International Peace Summit (where the Dalai Lama called it “very powerful”) and will be performed on the 10^th anniversary of 9/11 at the Interfaith Memorial at Pier 40 on the Hudson River. 

Kuriansky is available for interviews.  Also available:

• Video of performances of the “Towers of Light” song at memorials; an MP3 version; and live performances.
• A Red Cross PSA (video) produced after 9/11 of selected individuals’ experience of 9/11, including Dr. Judy.
• Video footage and photos of the Global Kids Connect Project in Haiti and Japan.

For more information, see www.DrJudy.com

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Dr. Judy Kuriansky, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, teacher at Columbia University Teachers College and United Nations Main NGO representative who has done disaster relief post-9’11 and around the world after disasters in Haiti, Sri Lanka, China and the Middle East. A former reporter for WCBS-TV, WABC-TV and host of CNBC-TV “Money and Emotions” and veteran radio advice talk show host of the popular “Love Phones” show, she now appears often as a TV commentator. A former columnist for the Daily News website and the South China Morning Post, and author of many books including “The Complete Idiots Guide to a Healthy Relationship,” she was recently awarded for Lifetime Achievement in Global Peace and Tolerance by the Friends of the United Nations.

The Global Kids Connect Project is a cross-cultural humanitarian initiative promoting healing and comfort for children after disasters that includes a workshop of stress reduction techniques, cultural experiences and exchange of dolls.  Partners include HappyDoll Inc., a Japanese-founded organization that has exchanged dolls for orphans and other children; the UN-accredited International Association of Applied Psychology; Haiti Action Youth for the United Nations; and New York’s St. Luke’s Hospital.

“Towers of Light” is a song from The Stand Up For Peace Project, an initiative that promotes peace, understanding and healing worldwide, co-founded by renowned psychologist Dr. Judy Kuriansky and acclaimed pianist/singer/songwriter Russell Daisey, who has performed for American presidents and world dignitaries, including Bill Clinton and George H.W. Bush, former Canadian Prime Minister Brian Mulroney, and the Chiniya Lama of Nepal.

Love in the Age of Terrorism: New York Psychologist Gives Advice for 9/11 10th anniversary 

New York, Aug. 24, 2011/PRNewsire/ -- As the 10th anniversary of the attacks on the World Trade Center looms, a noted New York psychologist who provided psychological first aide after 9/11, warns about "anniversary reactions" spelling trouble for couples and children.

“Symptoms like anxieties, fears and depression, and problems in relationships and work, are triggered on the date of a past emotionally-charged episode that reawakens traumatic memories,” explains trauma expert Dr. Judy Kuriansky, who also counseled survivors after Hurricane Katrina, the Asian tsunami and earthquakes in Australia, Haiti and China. 

Couple trouble results from conflicting coping styles. “Avoiders” want to escape being reminded about the event, compared to “Talkers” who want to review every detail and feeling. Kuriansky recalls one woman whose husband threatened divorce because she insisted on watching 9/11 TV coverage and he wanted to put the event out of his mind.

 Another opposite reaction is “Come closer” versus “Go away,” notes Kuriansky, who teaches about intimacy atColumbia University Teachers College. In a survey, 2/3 of women and men reported wanting more connection with a partner, while some withdrew from love and sex, and even didn’t want children.

To avoid couple trouble on 9/11, Kuriansky, a relationship and sex expert who hosted call-in radio shows for 22 years, advises that couples talk about and accept their differences, hug and hold each other for safety and comfort; and plan special pleasure nights for increased intimacy and fun.

Kuriansky further warns singles not to engage in “Terror Sex” – noted after 9/11 – having casual sex when desponding, “There may not be a future, so why not have a great time now?”   

Research also shows that children exposed to trauma can suffer long-lasting symptoms. To help, Kuriansky founded the Global Kids Connect Project, workshops of self-esteem exercises, healing songs and an exchange of dolls decorated by children from Haiti and Japan who survived the recent tsunami and earthquakes.

“The circle of dolls makes children from trauma zones know that other children care about them,” says Kuriansky. To help New York children facing intense public awareness of 9/11, the workshop will be given at the Back-to-School event at a major New York City hospital on September 8th.  New York children will receive dolls made by Haiti children, and make dolls to be sent back to Haiti and Japan. 

As research shows the healing power of music, songs in the workshop include the “Towers of Light,” an anthem written by Kuriansky and composer Russell Daisey, as a tribute to the heroes of 9/11 with messages of hope (www.towersoflightsong.com).  The song, called “very powerful” by world leaders, will be performed at a NYC 9/11 memorial. 

Available:  interviews with Kuriansky; press coverage of the Back-to School Event and doll exchange, September 8^th at St.Luke’s Hospital in NYC; “Towers of Light” performances live, video and CD; Video and photos, Global Kids Connect Project in Haiti and Japan. 12 years in China and Japan. See www.DrJudy.com

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